I am not dating anymore
I’m only asking a girl out on a real date if I think there’s some actual relationship potential – if I like her beyond her looks.A girl with a great personality is worth all the trouble that asking, planning, and paying for a date involves.It’s an exclusive thing, and once I truly like a girl, I have no problem taking her out on all sorts of dates and doing all kinds of grand romantic gestures for her. Historically, dating has been used as a method of finding companionship and, let’s be honest, a way to have sex.Over the years, people have found other, easier ways to achieve the same goals, and conventional dating has become unnecessary.Planning can be extremely stressful because we want this date to be successful so badly.Personally, I hate planning, and thus, I’m terrible at it, which makes me even more stressed out. I ask what type of food she’d like to eat, or what activities she enjoys doing, and the response is always, “Anything is fine with me”. Some might think that if a man asks a woman out, he should have a plan for what they will do.I don’t have money to waste on a girl I’m not even sure I like yet, because there’s a slight chance she won’t be worth that sort of investment.I may be physically attracted to a girl, but if I already know that she’s not somebody I’d want to be in a real relationship with, why waste my money and time? Those are the girls who I ask to just come over and hangout.
The possibility of rejection only increases if the girl you’re asking has no idea that you’re interested in her.I think it’s dope when girls show me love that way, and I really appreciate it.More often than not, ladies, the method will reveal the intentions.It’s pretty obvious that dating is quite different for women and men.For women, dating means that they have the opportunity to be made to feel special.